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This article discusses the meaning of the word '''consummate''' as mentioned in [[sahih]] [[hadith]]. | This article discusses the meaning of the word '''consummate''' as mentioned in [[sahih]] [[hadith]]. | ||
==Introduction== | ==Introduction== | ||
Some | Some [[apologists]] refuse to accept the existence of [[Qur'an,_Hadith_and_Scholars:Aisha#Aisha.27s_Age_at_Consummation_and_Marriage|narrations given by Aisha]] in which she states that she was [[Marriage|married]] to Prophet [[Muhammad]] when she was six years old and that he consummated his marriage with her when she was nine [[Islamic Lunar Calendar|lunar years]] of age, even though these are recorded in Bukhari's sahih ahadith collection. | ||
These apologists will usually resort to questioning the English translation <ref>[ | These apologists will usually resort to questioning the English translation <ref>[{{Compendium-of-muslim-texts-base-url}}/hadith/muslim/ USC's Compendium of Muslim texts - translated by Dr. Mushin Khan]</ref> of Dr. Mushin Khan, without addressing the ahadith in their original [[Arabic]]. This article will examine the Arabic language used in the narrations concerning [[Aisha|Aisha's]] marriage to Muhammad, in order to show that Muhammad did in fact have [[Sex|sexual intercourse]] with Aisha when she was nine years old. | ||
==Consummating the Marriage== | ==Consummating the Marriage== | ||
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Although there are numerous narrations regarding the age of Aisha when she was married, the one that is most often a point of contention is the following: | Although there are numerous narrations regarding the age of Aisha when she was married, the one that is most often a point of contention is the following: | ||
{{quote |{{Bukhari| | {{quote |{{Bukhari|||5133|darussalam}} | Narrated 'Aisha : | ||
that the Prophet '''married''' her when she was six years old and he '''consummated his marriage''' when she was nine years old. | that the Prophet '''married''' her when she was six years old and he '''consummated his marriage''' when she was nine years old. | ||
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It used to be that a marriage could be annulled if the sexual act was not performed; ie. if the marriage was not 'consummated.' This has been the definition for centuries. From ancient times until quite recently, the linen from the wedding bed was displayed to the relatives of the couple after the wedding night in order to prove consummation. A bride was expected to be a virgin, and a blood-stained sheet left no doubt as to both the bride's honor and the finality of the marriage contract (through consummation); and there was now no question as to the legality of the marriage. | It used to be that a marriage could be annulled if the sexual act was not performed; ie. if the marriage was not 'consummated.' This has been the definition for centuries. From ancient times until quite recently, the linen from the wedding bed was displayed to the relatives of the couple after the wedding night in order to prove consummation. A bride was expected to be a virgin, and a blood-stained sheet left no doubt as to both the bride's honor and the finality of the marriage contract (through consummation); and there was now no question as to the legality of the marriage. | ||
== Dakhala == | ==Dakhala== | ||
The Arabic text shows that the claims of Muslims as to their interpretation of the words 'zawaj' and 'nikah' are incorrect. Bukhari uses 'zawaj' and 'nikah' interchangeably as synonyms to mean marriage (as does {{Quran|33|37}}, {{Quran|44|54}} and {{Quran|52|20}}). | The Arabic text shows that the claims of Muslims as to their interpretation of the words 'zawaj' and 'nikah' are incorrect. Bukhari uses 'zawaj' and 'nikah' interchangeably as synonyms to mean marriage (as does {{Quran|33|37}}, {{Quran|44|54}} and {{Quran|52|20}}). | ||
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* imperfection, vice, flaw, shortcoming, blemish, aberration, defect, fault, abnormality}} | * imperfection, vice, flaw, shortcoming, blemish, aberration, defect, fault, abnormality}} | ||
=== Dictionary entries on Dakhala === | ===Dictionary entries on Dakhala=== | ||
An English definition for dakhala, which is commonly found on the Internet is as follows: | An English definition for dakhala, which is commonly found on the Internet is as follows: | ||
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It is clear that the only meaning of dakhala applicable to the context of the hadith is 'sexual intercourse.' | It is clear that the only meaning of dakhala applicable to the context of the hadith is 'sexual intercourse.' | ||
== Dakhala in the Qur'an == | ==Dakhala in the Qur'an== | ||
Here is the complete list of the [[Qur'an|Qur'anic]] verses containing the word "dakhala": | Here is the complete list of the [[Qur'an|Qur'anic]] verses containing the word "dakhala": | ||
* dakhala - {{Quran|3|37}}, {{Quran|3|97}}, {{Quran|4|23}}, {{Quran|4|23}}, {{Quran|5|23}}, {{Quran|5|61}}, {{Quran|7|38}}, {{Quran|12|36}}, {{Quran|12|58}}, {{Quran|12|68}}, {{Quran|12|69}}, {{Quran|12|88}}, {{Quran|12|99}}, {{Quran|15|52}}, {{Quran|17|7}}, {{Quran|18|35}}, {{Quran|18|39}}, {{Quran|24|61}}, {{Quran|27|34}}, {{Quran|28|15}}, {{Quran|38|22}}, {{Quran|51|25}}, {{Quran|71|28}} | *dakhala - {{Quran|3|37}}, {{Quran|3|97}}, {{Quran|4|23}}, {{Quran|4|23}}, {{Quran|5|23}}, {{Quran|5|61}}, {{Quran|7|38}}, {{Quran|12|36}}, {{Quran|12|58}}, {{Quran|12|68}}, {{Quran|12|69}}, {{Quran|12|88}}, {{Quran|12|99}}, {{Quran|15|52}}, {{Quran|17|7}}, {{Quran|18|35}}, {{Quran|18|39}}, {{Quran|24|61}}, {{Quran|27|34}}, {{Quran|28|15}}, {{Quran|38|22}}, {{Quran|51|25}}, {{Quran|71|28}} | ||
* yadkhulu - {{Quran|2|111}}, {{Quran|2|114}}, {{Quran|2|214}}, {{Quran|3|142}}, {{Quran|4|124}}, {{Quran|5|22}}, {{Quran|5|24}}, {{Quran|7|40}}, {{Quran|7|46}}, {{Quran|12|67}}, {{Quran|13|23}}, {{Quran|16|31}}, {{Quran|17|7}}, {{Quran|19|60}}, {{Quran|24|27}}, {{Quran|24|28}}, {{Quran|24|29}}, {{Quran|33|53}}, {{Quran|35|33}}, {{Quran|40|40}}, {{Quran|40|60}}, {{Quran|48|27}}, {{Quran|49|14}}, {{Quran|68|24}}, {{Quran|110|2}} | *yadkhulu - {{Quran|2|111}}, {{Quran|2|114}}, {{Quran|2|214}}, {{Quran|3|142}}, {{Quran|4|124}}, {{Quran|5|22}}, {{Quran|5|24}}, {{Quran|7|40}}, {{Quran|7|46}}, {{Quran|12|67}}, {{Quran|13|23}}, {{Quran|16|31}}, {{Quran|17|7}}, {{Quran|19|60}}, {{Quran|24|27}}, {{Quran|24|28}}, {{Quran|24|29}}, {{Quran|33|53}}, {{Quran|35|33}}, {{Quran|40|40}}, {{Quran|40|60}}, {{Quran|48|27}}, {{Quran|49|14}}, {{Quran|68|24}}, {{Quran|110|2}} | ||
* udkhul - {{Quran|2|58}}, {{Quran|2|208}}, {{Quran|4|154}}, {{Quran|5|21}}, {{Quran|5|23}}, {{Quran|7|38}}, {{Quran|7|49}}, {{Quran|7|161}}, {{Quran|12|67}}, {{Quran|12|99}}, {{Quran|15|46}}, {{Quran|16|29}}, {{Quran|16|32}}, {{Quran|27|18}}, {{Quran|27|44}}, {{Quran|33|53}}, {{Quran|36|26}}, {{Quran|39|72}}, {{Quran|39|73}}, {{Quran|40|76}}, {{Quran|43|70}}, {{Quran|50|34}}, {{Quran|66|10}}, {{Quran|89|29}}, {{Quran|89|30}} | *udkhul - {{Quran|2|58}}, {{Quran|2|208}}, {{Quran|4|154}}, {{Quran|5|21}}, {{Quran|5|23}}, {{Quran|7|38}}, {{Quran|7|49}}, {{Quran|7|161}}, {{Quran|12|67}}, {{Quran|12|99}}, {{Quran|15|46}}, {{Quran|16|29}}, {{Quran|16|32}}, {{Quran|27|18}}, {{Quran|27|44}}, {{Quran|33|53}}, {{Quran|36|26}}, {{Quran|39|72}}, {{Quran|39|73}}, {{Quran|40|76}}, {{Quran|43|70}}, {{Quran|50|34}}, {{Quran|66|10}}, {{Quran|89|29}}, {{Quran|89|30}} | ||
* dukhila - {{Quran|33|14}}. | *dukhila - {{Quran|33|14}}. | ||
* dakhil - {{Quran|5|22}}, {{Quran|66|10}} | *dakhil - {{Quran|5|22}}, {{Quran|66|10}} | ||
* dakhal - {{Quran|16|92}}, {{Quran|16|94}}. | *dakhal - {{Quran|16|92}}, {{Quran|16|94}}. | ||
* muddakhal - {{Quran|9|57}} | *muddakhal - {{Quran|9|57}} | ||
* mudkhal - {{Quran|4|31}}, {{Quran|17|80}}, {{Quran|22|59}}. | *mudkhal - {{Quran|4|31}}, {{Quran|17|80}}, {{Quran|22|59}}. | ||
* adkhala - {{Quran|5|65}}, {{Quran|21|75}}, {{Quran|21|86}}. | *adkhala - {{Quran|5|65}}, {{Quran|21|75}}, {{Quran|21|86}}. | ||
* yudkhilu - {{Quran|3|192}}, {{Quran|3|195}}, {{Quran|4|13}}, {{Quran|4|14}}, {{Quran|4|31}}, {{Quran|4|57}}, {{Quran|4|122}}, {{Quran|4|175}}, {{Quran|5|12}}, {{Quran|5|84}}, {{Quran|9|99}}, {{Quran|22|14}}, {{Quran|22|23}}, {{Quran|22|59}}, {{Quran|29|9}}, {{Quran|42|8}}, {{Quran|45|30}}, {{Quran|47|6}}, {{Quran|47|12}}, {{Quran|48|5}}, {{Quran|48|17}}, {{Quran|48|25}}, {{Quran|58|22}}, {{Quran|61|12}}, {{Quran|64|9}}, {{Quran|65|11}}, {{Quran|66|8}}, {{Quran|76|31}}. | *yudkhilu - {{Quran|3|192}}, {{Quran|3|195}}, {{Quran|4|13}}, {{Quran|4|14}}, {{Quran|4|31}}, {{Quran|4|57}}, {{Quran|4|122}}, {{Quran|4|175}}, {{Quran|5|12}}, {{Quran|5|84}}, {{Quran|9|99}}, {{Quran|22|14}}, {{Quran|22|23}}, {{Quran|22|59}}, {{Quran|29|9}}, {{Quran|42|8}}, {{Quran|45|30}}, {{Quran|47|6}}, {{Quran|47|12}}, {{Quran|48|5}}, {{Quran|48|17}}, {{Quran|48|25}}, {{Quran|58|22}}, {{Quran|61|12}}, {{Quran|64|9}}, {{Quran|65|11}}, {{Quran|66|8}}, {{Quran|76|31}}. | ||
* adkhil - {{Quran|7|151}}, {{Quran|17|80}}, {{Quran|27|12}}, {{Quran|27|19}}, {{Quran|40|8}}, {{Quran|40|46}}. | *adkhil - {{Quran|7|151}}, {{Quran|17|80}}, {{Quran|27|12}}, {{Quran|27|19}}, {{Quran|40|8}}, {{Quran|40|46}}. | ||
* udkhila - {{Quran|3|185}}, {{Quran|14|23}}, {{Quran|71|25}}. | *udkhila - {{Quran|3|185}}, {{Quran|14|23}}, {{Quran|71|25}}. | ||
* yudkhalu - {{Quran|70|38}} | *yudkhalu - {{Quran|70|38}} | ||
In all ayats except {{Quran|16|92}} and {{Quran|16|94}} (as dakhal means 'deception'), the meaning is "to enter" or to "gain admittance" or "be granted admission" to some location such as a house, gate, fire, paradise, hell, someone's presence etc. | In all ayats except {{Quran|16|92}} and {{Quran|16|94}} (as dakhal means 'deception'), the meaning is "to enter" or to "gain admittance" or "be granted admission" to some location such as a house, gate, fire, paradise, hell, someone's presence etc. | ||
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In the Qur'an, dakhala is never used to mean 'participation'; like the English phrases "enter a transaction" or "enter a marriage" or a "completion" of any activity. | In the Qur'an, dakhala is never used to mean 'participation'; like the English phrases "enter a transaction" or "enter a marriage" or a "completion" of any activity. | ||
===Qur'an 4:23 === | ===Qur'an 4:23=== | ||
There is only ''one'' instance (and that is twice in {{Quran|4|23}} that the verb 'dakhala' is used in relation to marriage or women - and it is clear that the meaning is sexual intercourse. Here is a selection of translations that translate 'dakhaltum' to mean 'sexual intercourse': | There is only ''one'' instance (and that is twice in {{Quran|4|23}} that the verb 'dakhala' is used in relation to marriage or women - and it is clear that the meaning is sexual intercourse. Here is a selection of translations that translate 'dakhaltum' to mean 'sexual intercourse': | ||
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Therefore we see that the eminent scholars of Islam translate the verb 'dakhaltum' (the root word is dakhala) to mean 'sexual intercourse', because the literal meaning is to "enter", "insert into", "penetrate", or "pierce" a woman. It does not mean "enter a marriage" - it means "enter" the woman. | Therefore we see that the eminent scholars of Islam translate the verb 'dakhaltum' (the root word is dakhala) to mean 'sexual intercourse', because the literal meaning is to "enter", "insert into", "penetrate", or "pierce" a woman. It does not mean "enter a marriage" - it means "enter" the woman. | ||
== Bana Biha == | ==Bana Biha== | ||
To further confound the Muslim apologist, the Bukhari ahadith use another phrase to convey the fact that Muhammad had sexual intercourse with Aisha: | To further confound the Muslim apologist, the Bukhari ahadith use another phrase to convey the fact that Muhammad had sexual intercourse with Aisha: | ||
{{quote|{{Bukhari| | {{quote|{{Bukhari|||3896|darussalam}}| Narrated Hisham's father : | ||
Khadija died three years before the Prophet departed to Medina. He stayed there for two years or so and then he married 'Aisha when she was a girl of six years of age, and he '''consummated his marriage''' when she was nine years old. | Khadija died three years before the Prophet departed to Medina. He stayed there for two years or so and then he married 'Aisha when she was a girl of six years of age, and he '''consummated his marriage''' when she was nine years old. | ||
''An Hisham An Abeehi Qala thuwaffiyath Khadijathu qabla makhrajannabiyyi sallallahu Alaihi Vasallama ilal Madeenathi bi thalatha sineenaa falabitha sanathaini ou qareeban min dhalika va nakaha Ayesha vahiya binthu sithi sineena thumma '''bana biha''' vahiya binthu this”I sineen.''}} | ''An Hisham An Abeehi Qala thuwaffiyath Khadijathu qabla makhrajannabiyyi sallallahu Alaihi Vasallama ilal Madeenathi bi thalatha sineenaa falabitha sanathaini ou qareeban min dhalika va nakaha Ayesha vahiya binthu sithi sineena thumma '''bana biha''' vahiya binthu this”I sineen.''}} | ||
{{Quote|{{Bukhari| | {{Quote|{{Bukhari|||5134|darussalam}}| Narrated 'Aisha that the Prophet married her when she was six years old and he '''consummated his marriage''' when she was nine years old. Hisham said: I have been informed that 'Aisha remained with the Prophet for nine years (i.e. till his death)." | ||
''An Ayesha th AnnaNabiyya Sallallahu alaihi vasallama thazawwajaha vahiya binthu Sitha sineena, va '''bana biha''' vahiya binthu This”I sineen. Qala Hisham : Va unbiethu Annaha kanath Indahu This”I Sineen.''}} | ''An Ayesha th AnnaNabiyya Sallallahu alaihi vasallama thazawwajaha vahiya binthu Sitha sineena, va '''bana biha''' vahiya binthu This”I sineen. Qala Hisham : Va unbiethu Annaha kanath Indahu This”I Sineen.''}} | ||
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If we say in Arabic: 'Muhammad bana bi Aisha', the meaning is: 'Muhammad had intercourse with Aisha.' This is the only possibly Arabic understanding of the phrase. Therefore, again, it is apparent that Dr. Mushin Khan has used the euphemism "consummated the marriage" to denote the sexual act. | If we say in Arabic: 'Muhammad bana bi Aisha', the meaning is: 'Muhammad had intercourse with Aisha.' This is the only possibly Arabic understanding of the phrase. Therefore, again, it is apparent that Dr. Mushin Khan has used the euphemism "consummated the marriage" to denote the sexual act. | ||
Other Bukhari ahadith that use the phrase ''"bana biha"'' to mean sexual intercourse (although not between Muhammad and Aisha) include: | Other Bukhari ahadith that use the phrase ''"bana biha"'' to mean sexual intercourse (although not between Muhammad and Aisha) include: {{Bukhari|||3124|darussalam}} and {{Bukhari|||5157|darussalam}}. | ||
{{Quote|{{Bukhari| | {{Quote|{{Bukhari|||3124|darussalam}}|Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, "A prophet amongst the prophets carried out a holy military expedition, so he said to his followers, 'Anyone who has married a woman and wants to '''consummate the marriage''', and has not done so yet, should not accompany me; nor should a man who has built a house but has not completed its roof; nor a man who has sheep or shecamels and is waiting for the birth of their young ones.' So, the prophet carried out the expedition and when he reached that town at the time or nearly at the time of the 'Asr prayer, he said to the sun, 'O sun! You are under Allah's Order and I am under Allah's Order O Allah! Stop it (i.e. the sun) from setting.' It was stopped till Allah made him victorious...}} | ||
{{Quote|{{Bukhari| | {{Quote|{{Bukhari|||5157|darussalam}}|Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, "A prophet among the prophets went for a military expedition and said to his people: "A man who has married a lady and wants to '''consummate his marriage''' with her and he has not done so yet, should not accompany me.' "}} | ||
== Conclusion == | ==Conclusion== | ||
A reading of the relevant Bukhari ahadith make it clear that Muhammad had sexual intercourse with Aisha when she was nine years of age. The terms used are: ''"udkhilath"'' and ''"bana biha"'', which can only mean ''"sexual intercourse"'' in the context of the ahadith. | A reading of the relevant Bukhari ahadith make it clear that Muhammad had sexual intercourse with Aisha when she was nine years of age. The terms used are: ''"udkhilath"'' and ''"bana biha"'', which can only mean ''"sexual intercourse"'' in the context of the ahadith. | ||
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Instead of attacking the English phrase "consummation of the marriage", it might better serve Muslim apologists to read the relevant ahadith in the original Arabic. | Instead of attacking the English phrase "consummation of the marriage", it might better serve Muslim apologists to read the relevant ahadith in the original Arabic. | ||
==See Also== | ==See Also== | ||
{{Hub4|Glossary of Islamic Terms|Islamic Terms}} | |||
== References == | ==References== | ||
{{reflist}} | {{reflist}} | ||
[[Category: | [[Category:Aisha]] | ||
[[Category: | [[Category:Marriage]] | ||
[[Category: | [[Category:Child Marriage]] | ||
[[Category: | [[Category:Arabic]] | ||
[[Category: | [[Category:Sex]] | ||
[[Category:Women]] | |||
[[Category:Fiqh (legal theory)]] | |||
[[Category:Hadith]] | |||