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While Islam critics claim that: | While Islam critics claim that: | ||
* 'Iddah rulings are illogical, and thus they have contradictions. | *'Iddah rulings are illogical, and thus they have contradictions. | ||
* And all these restrictions of 'Iddah are only targeting the women and only women have to suffer unilaterally. | *And all these restrictions of 'Iddah are only targeting the women and only women have to suffer unilaterally. | ||
==‘Iddah and the ‘parentage’ of the child== | ==‘Iddah and the ‘parentage’ of the child== | ||
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*After this first menstrual cycle, Muslim men are allowed to have sex with them. | *After this first menstrual cycle, Muslim men are allowed to have sex with them. | ||
*Muhammad himself had sex with Saffiyah the same night, when in the day her father, brother and husband was killed, while she became free from blood of her first menstrual cycle the same day<ref>[https://sunnah.com/bukhari/64/251 Sahih Bukhari:2158]</ref>. Muhammad married her as a free woman. | *Muhammad himself had sex with Saffiyah the same night, when in the day her father, brother and husband was killed, while she became free from blood of her first menstrual cycle the same day<ref>[https://sunnah.com/bukhari/64/251 Sahih Bukhari:2158]</ref>. Muhammad married her as a free woman. | ||
*Thus 3 monthly cycle 'Iddah of divorced woman, or 4 months 10 days 'Iddah of a widow, or the birth of child in case of pregnant woman has nothing to do with the parentage of the child. | *Thus 3 monthly cycle 'Iddah of divorced woman, or 4 months 10 days 'Iddah of a widow, or the birth of child in case of pregnant woman has nothing to do with the parentage of the child. | ||
== Restrictions upon the women during 'Iddah: == | ==Restrictions upon the women during 'Iddah:== | ||
===First Restriction: She has to obligatorily stay only in the house of Husband during ‘Iddah=== | ===First Restriction: She has to obligatorily stay only in the house of Husband during ‘Iddah=== | ||
According to Sharia'h, If the husband dies: | According to Sharia'h, If the husband dies: | ||
* then a woman has to stay ONLY in the house of her husband during this whole period of 'Iddah. | *then a woman has to stay ONLY in the house of her husband during this whole period of 'Iddah. | ||
* She is not allowed to spend this time of 'Iddah in any other place (like house of her parents or any other family members)<ref>Fatwas Website Islamqa.Org. [https://web.archive.org/web/20211028112250/https://islamqa.org/hanafi/askmufti/45291/laws-of-the-iddat/ Laws of Iddat].</ref>. | *She is not allowed to spend this time of 'Iddah in any other place (like house of her parents or any other family members)<ref>Fatwas Website Islamqa.Org. [https://web.archive.org/web/20211028112250/https://islamqa.org/hanafi/askmufti/45291/laws-of-the-iddat/ Laws of Iddat].</ref>. | ||
Islam critics object here that: | Islam critics object here that: | ||
*What does that have to do with the ‘parentage’ of the child where does she live after the death of her husband? | *What does that have to do with the ‘parentage’ of the child where does she live after the death of her husband? | ||
*Why could she not spend the waiting period in the house of her parents, where she feels comfortable and where she is among the people who love her? | *Why could she not spend the waiting period in the house of her parents, where she feels comfortable and where she is among the people who love her? | ||
*While in the house of her husband, she could be all alone, and she has to live like she is in a Solitary confinement. | *While in the house of her husband, she could be all alone, and she has to live like she is in a Solitary confinement. | ||
*Moreover, it could be a huge mental torture for women to live for 4 long months in the house where their husbands died. Why Allah is not able to feel this mental torture of women? | *Moreover, it could be a huge mental torture for women to live for 4 long months in the house where their husbands died. Why Allah is not able to feel this mental torture of women? | ||
*And if she is pregnant, it could be a period of up to 9 long months, where she has a baby in her belly, and she is alone in solitary confinement like situation in the house where her husband died. | *And if she is pregnant, it could be a period of up to 9 long months, where she has a baby in her belly, and she is alone in solitary confinement like situation in the house where her husband died. | ||
===Second Restriction: She has to stay in the husband’s house, even if it doesn’t belong to him, or even if he hasn’t left any maintenance money for the wife=== | ===Second Restriction: She has to stay in the husband’s house, even if it doesn’t belong to him, or even if he hasn’t left any maintenance money for the wife=== | ||
{{Quote|{{Abudawud||2300| | {{Quote|{{Abudawud||2300|darussalam}}|Furay'ah said that she came to the Messenger of Allah and asked him whether she could return to her people, Banu Khidrah, for her husband went out seeking his slaves who ran away. When they met him at al-Qudum, they murdered him. | ||
So I asked the Messenger of Allah: "Should I return to my people, '''for he did not leave any dwelling house of his own and maintenance for me'''? | So I asked the Messenger of Allah: "Should I return to my people, '''for he did not leave any dwelling house of his own and maintenance for me'''? | ||