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{{Quote|{{Quran|3|159}}|So by mercy from Allah, [O Muhammad], you were lenient with them. And if you had been rude [in speech] and harsh in heart, they would have disbanded from about you. So pardon them and ask forgiveness for them and consult them in the matter. And when you have decided, then rely upon Allah. Indeed, Allah loves those who rely [upon Him].}} | {{Quote|{{Quran|3|159}}|So by mercy from Allah, [O Muhammad], you were lenient with them. And if you had been rude [in speech] and harsh in heart, they would have disbanded from about you. So pardon them and ask forgiveness for them and consult them in the matter. And when you have decided, then rely upon Allah. Indeed, Allah loves those who rely [upon Him].}} | ||
=== | ===Avoid gossip=== | ||
{{Quote|{{Quran-range|68|10|11}}|And do not obey every worthless habitual swearer [And] scorner, going about with malicious gossip -}} | {{Quote|{{Quran-range|68|10|11}}|And do not obey every worthless habitual swearer [And] scorner, going about with malicious gossip -}} | ||
=== | ===Avoid negative assumptions, spying and backbiting=== | ||
{{Quote|{{Quran|49|12}}|O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when dead? You would detest it. And fear Allah; indeed, Allah is Accepting of repentance and Merciful.}} | {{Quote|{{Quran|49|12}}|O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when dead? You would detest it. And fear Allah; indeed, Allah is Accepting of repentance and Merciful.}} | ||
=== | ===Avoid insulting=== | ||
{{Quote|{{Quran|6|108}}|And do not insult those they invoke other than Allah, lest they insult Allah in enmity without knowledge. Thus We have made pleasing to every community their deeds. Then to their Lord is their return, and He will inform them about what they used to do.}} | {{Quote|{{Quran|6|108}}|And do not insult those they invoke other than Allah, lest they insult Allah in enmity without knowledge. Thus We have made pleasing to every community their deeds. Then to their Lord is their return, and He will inform them about what they used to do.}} | ||
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He who wants to publicise (his deeds), Allah will publicise (his humility), and he who makes a hypocritical display (of his deeds), Allah will make a display of him.}} | He who wants to publicise (his deeds), Allah will publicise (his humility), and he who makes a hypocritical display (of his deeds), Allah will make a display of him.}} | ||
=== | ===Avoid gossip=== | ||
{{Quote|{{Ibn Majah|1|1|347}}|It was narrated that Ibn 'Abbas said: | {{Quote|{{Ibn Majah|1|1|347}}|It was narrated that Ibn 'Abbas said: | ||
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{{Quote|{{Muwatta|56|20}}|Malik related to me from Suhayl ibn Abi Salih from his father from Abu Hurayra that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Allah is pleased with three things from you, and He is angry with three things from you. He is pleased that you worship Him and do not associate anything with Him, and that you take hold of the rope of Allah altogether, and that you give good counsel to the one to whom Allah gives command over you. He is angry with you for gossip, squandering property, and asking too many questions."}} | {{Quote|{{Muwatta|56|20}}|Malik related to me from Suhayl ibn Abi Salih from his father from Abu Hurayra that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Allah is pleased with three things from you, and He is angry with three things from you. He is pleased that you worship Him and do not associate anything with Him, and that you take hold of the rope of Allah altogether, and that you give good counsel to the one to whom Allah gives command over you. He is angry with you for gossip, squandering property, and asking too many questions."}} | ||
=== | ===Avoid glancing at a non-mahram=== | ||
{{Quote|{{Muslim|25|5372}}|Jarir b. 'Abdullah reported: | {{Quote|{{Muslim|25|5372}}|Jarir b. 'Abdullah reported: | ||
I asked Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) about the sudden glance (that is cast) on the face (of a non-Mahram). He commanded me that I should turn away my eyes.}} | I asked Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) about the sudden glance (that is cast) on the face (of a non-Mahram). He commanded me that I should turn away my eyes.}} | ||
=== | ===Avoid being two-faced=== | ||
{{Quote|{{Abu Dawud|41|4855}}|Narrated Ammar: | {{Quote|{{Abu Dawud|41|4855}}|Narrated Ammar: | ||
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"Indeed among the worst of people to Allah, on the Day of Judgment, is the two faced person."}} | "Indeed among the worst of people to Allah, on the Day of Judgment, is the two faced person."}} | ||
=== | ===Avoid vanity=== | ||
{{Quote|{{Ibn Majah|4|32|3607}}| | {{Quote|{{Ibn Majah|4|32|3607}}| | ||