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{{Quote|{{Bukhari|1|5|268|}}|Narrated Qatada: Anas bin Malik said, "The Prophet used to visit all his wives in a round, during the day and night '''and they were eleven in number.'''" I asked Anas, "Had the Prophet the strength for it?" Anas replied, "We used to say that the Prophet was given the strength of thirty (men)." And Sa'id said on the authority of Qatada that Anas had told him about nine wives only (not eleven).}}
{{Quote|{{Bukhari|1|5|268|}}|Narrated Qatada: Anas bin Malik said, "The Prophet used to visit all his wives in a round, during the day and night '''and they were eleven in number.'''" I asked Anas, "Had the Prophet the strength for it?" Anas replied, "We used to say that the Prophet was given the strength of thirty (men)." And Sa'id said on the authority of Qatada that Anas had told him about nine wives only (not eleven).}}
== Wives ==
== Khadijah ==
 
=== Khadijah ===
{{Main|Khadijah}}
{{Main|Khadijah}}


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I asked Aba Salama bin 'Abdur-Rahman about the first Sura revealed of the Qur'an. He replied "O you, wrapped-up (i.e. Al Muddaththir)." I said, "They say it was, 'Read, in the Name of your Lord Who created,' (i.e. Surat Al-'Alaq (the Clot)." On that, Abu Salama said, "I asked Jabir bin 'Abdullah about that, saying the same as you have said, whereupon he said, 'I will not tell you except what Allah's Apostle had told us. Allah's Apostle said, "I was in seclusion in the cave of Hiram', and after I completed the limited period of my seclusion. I came down (from the cave) and heard a voice calling me. I looked to my right, but saw nothing. Then I looked up and saw something. So I went to Khadija (the Prophet's wife) and told her to wrap me up and pour cold water on me. So they wrapped me up and poured cold water on me." Then, 'O you, (Muhammad) wrapped up! Arise and warn,' (Surat Al Muddaththir) was revealed." (74.1) | See also: {{Bukhari|6|60|481}} & {{Muslim|1|307}} }}
I asked Aba Salama bin 'Abdur-Rahman about the first Sura revealed of the Qur'an. He replied "O you, wrapped-up (i.e. Al Muddaththir)." I said, "They say it was, 'Read, in the Name of your Lord Who created,' (i.e. Surat Al-'Alaq (the Clot)." On that, Abu Salama said, "I asked Jabir bin 'Abdullah about that, saying the same as you have said, whereupon he said, 'I will not tell you except what Allah's Apostle had told us. Allah's Apostle said, "I was in seclusion in the cave of Hiram', and after I completed the limited period of my seclusion. I came down (from the cave) and heard a voice calling me. I looked to my right, but saw nothing. Then I looked up and saw something. So I went to Khadija (the Prophet's wife) and told her to wrap me up and pour cold water on me. So they wrapped me up and poured cold water on me." Then, 'O you, (Muhammad) wrapped up! Arise and warn,' (Surat Al Muddaththir) was revealed." (74.1) | See also: {{Bukhari|6|60|481}} & {{Muslim|1|307}} }}


=== Sawda ===
== Sawda ==


;Sawda was a mother figure for Aisha
;Sawda was a mother figure for Aisha
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{{Quote|1=[http://translate.google.co.uk/translate?js=y&prev=_t&hl=en&ie=UTF-8&layout=1&eotf=1&u=http%3A%2F%2Fquran.al-islam.com%2FTafseer%2FDispTafsser.asp%3Fl%3Darb%26taf%3DKORTOBY%26nType%3D1%26nSora%3D4%26nAya%3D128&sl=auto&tl=en Al-Qurtubi (Arabic source; translated by Mutee’a Al-Fadi)]|2=In this verse [4:130] there are four issues: the first, Al-Tirmidhi told that Ibn Abbas said: Saudah feared that the messenger of Allah will divorce her so she said, "Do not divorce me and keep me, and give my day with you to Ai'sha." He did and this verse came down: "there is no blame on them, if they effect a reconciliation between them, and reconciliation is better." He said: this is a good and strange hadith. }}
{{Quote|1=[http://translate.google.co.uk/translate?js=y&prev=_t&hl=en&ie=UTF-8&layout=1&eotf=1&u=http%3A%2F%2Fquran.al-islam.com%2FTafseer%2FDispTafsser.asp%3Fl%3Darb%26taf%3DKORTOBY%26nType%3D1%26nSora%3D4%26nAya%3D128&sl=auto&tl=en Al-Qurtubi (Arabic source; translated by Mutee’a Al-Fadi)]|2=In this verse [4:130] there are four issues: the first, Al-Tirmidhi told that Ibn Abbas said: Saudah feared that the messenger of Allah will divorce her so she said, "Do not divorce me and keep me, and give my day with you to Ai'sha." He did and this verse came down: "there is no blame on them, if they effect a reconciliation between them, and reconciliation is better." He said: this is a good and strange hadith. }}


=== Aisha ===
== Aisha ==
{{Main|Qur'an, Hadith and Scholars:Aisha}}
{{Main|Qur'an, Hadith and Scholars:Aisha}}


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Allah's Apostle said, "The superiority of 'Aisha over other women is like the superiority of Tharid to other meals." | See also: {{Bukhari|7|65|330}} & {{Bukhari|7|65|339}} }}
Allah's Apostle said, "The superiority of 'Aisha over other women is like the superiority of Tharid to other meals." | See also: {{Bukhari|7|65|330}} & {{Bukhari|7|65|339}} }}


=== Umm Salama ===
== Umm Salama ==
;Umm Salama was a widow
;Umm Salama was a widow


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{{Quote|{{Muslim|26|5415}}| Umm Salama reported that she had a eunuch (as a slave) in her house. Allah's Messenger imay peace be upon him) was once in the house that he (the eunuch) said to the brother of Umm Salama: Abdullahb. Aba Umayya. if Allah grants you victory in Ta'if on the next day, I will show you the daughter of Ghailan for she has four folds (upon her body) on the front side of her stomach and eight folds on the back. Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) heard this and he said: Such (people) should not visit you. | See also: {{Muwatta|37|6|5|}} }}
{{Quote|{{Muslim|26|5415}}| Umm Salama reported that she had a eunuch (as a slave) in her house. Allah's Messenger imay peace be upon him) was once in the house that he (the eunuch) said to the brother of Umm Salama: Abdullahb. Aba Umayya. if Allah grants you victory in Ta'if on the next day, I will show you the daughter of Ghailan for she has four folds (upon her body) on the front side of her stomach and eight folds on the back. Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) heard this and he said: Such (people) should not visit you. | See also: {{Muwatta|37|6|5|}} }}


=== Hafsa ===
== Hafsa ==
;Hafsa was a widow
;Hafsa was a widow


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I intended to ask 'Umar so I said, "Who were those two ladies who tried to back each other against the Prophet?" I hardly finished my speech when he said, They were 'Aisha and Hafsa."}}
I intended to ask 'Umar so I said, "Who were those two ladies who tried to back each other against the Prophet?" I hardly finished my speech when he said, They were 'Aisha and Hafsa."}}


=== Zainab bint Jash ===
== Zainab bint Jash ==


;Muhammad took his cousin<ref>Maududi (1967), Tafhimul Quran, Chapter Al Ahzab</ref> Zainab as his wife after getting his adopted son Zaid to divorce her
;Muhammad took his cousin<ref>Maududi (1967), Tafhimul Quran, Chapter Al Ahzab</ref> Zainab as his wife after getting his adopted son Zaid to divorce her
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;Zainab was the first of Muhammad's wives to die (after Khadija)
;Zainab was the first of Muhammad's wives to die (after Khadijah)


{{Quote|{{Bukhari|2|24|501}}| Narrated 'Aisha:<BR>
{{Quote|{{Bukhari|2|24|501}}| Narrated 'Aisha:<BR>
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Some of the wives of the Prophet asked him, "Who amongst us will be the first to follow you (i.e. die after you)?" He said, "Whoever has the longest hand." So they started measuring their hands with a stick and Sauda's hand turned out to be the longest. (When Zainab bint Jahsh died first of all in the caliphate of 'Umar), we came to know that the long hand was a symbol of practicing charity, so she was the first to follow the Prophet and she used to love to practice charity. (Sauda died later in the caliphate of Muawiya).}}
Some of the wives of the Prophet asked him, "Who amongst us will be the first to follow you (i.e. die after you)?" He said, "Whoever has the longest hand." So they started measuring their hands with a stick and Sauda's hand turned out to be the longest. (When Zainab bint Jahsh died first of all in the caliphate of 'Umar), we came to know that the long hand was a symbol of practicing charity, so she was the first to follow the Prophet and she used to love to practice charity. (Sauda died later in the caliphate of Muawiya).}}


=== Juwairiyah ===
== Juwairiyah ==


;Juwairiyah was war booty
;Juwairiyah was war booty
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The Prophet visited her (Juwairiya) on a Friday and she was fasting. He asked her, "Did you fast yesterday?" She said, "No." He said, "Do you intend to fast tomorrow?" She said, "No." He said, "Then break your fast." Through another series of narrators, Abu Aiyub is reported to have said, "He ordered her and she broke her fast."}}
The Prophet visited her (Juwairiya) on a Friday and she was fasting. He asked her, "Did you fast yesterday?" She said, "No." He said, "Do you intend to fast tomorrow?" She said, "No." He said, "Then break your fast." Through another series of narrators, Abu Aiyub is reported to have said, "He ordered her and she broke her fast."}}


=== Umm Habiba ===
== Umm Habiba ==


;Umm Habiba asked Muhammad to marry her sister as well
;Umm Habiba asked Muhammad to marry her sister as well
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Umm Habiba, the daughter of AbuSufyan, reported: The Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) came to me and I said to him: Have you any inclination towards my the daughter of Abu Sufyan? He (the Holy Prophet) said: Then what should I do? I said: Marry her. He said: Do you like that? I said: I am not the exclusive (wife) of yours; I, therefore, wish to join my sister in good. He, said: She is not lawful for me. I said: I have been informed that you have given the proposal of marriage to Durrah daughter of Abu Salama He raid: You mean the daughter of Umm Salama? I said: Yes. He said: Even if she had not been my step-daughter brought up under my guardianship, she would not have been lawful for me, for she is the daughter of my foster-brother (Hamza), for Thuwaiba had suckled me and her father. So do not give me the proposal of the marriage of your daughters and sisters. This hadith has been narrated on the authority of Hisham with the same chain of transmitters. | See also: {{Muslim|8|3413}} }}
Umm Habiba, the daughter of AbuSufyan, reported: The Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) came to me and I said to him: Have you any inclination towards my the daughter of Abu Sufyan? He (the Holy Prophet) said: Then what should I do? I said: Marry her. He said: Do you like that? I said: I am not the exclusive (wife) of yours; I, therefore, wish to join my sister in good. He, said: She is not lawful for me. I said: I have been informed that you have given the proposal of marriage to Durrah daughter of Abu Salama He raid: You mean the daughter of Umm Salama? I said: Yes. He said: Even if she had not been my step-daughter brought up under my guardianship, she would not have been lawful for me, for she is the daughter of my foster-brother (Hamza), for Thuwaiba had suckled me and her father. So do not give me the proposal of the marriage of your daughters and sisters. This hadith has been narrated on the authority of Hisham with the same chain of transmitters. | See also: {{Muslim|8|3413}} }}


===Safiyah===
==Safiyah==
{{Main|Safiyah}}
{{Main|Safiyah}}


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'Ata related that when they were with Ibn 'Abbas (Allah be pleased with them) at the funeral of Maimuna In Sarif, Ibn 'Abbas (Allah be pleased with them) said: This is the wife of Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) ; so when you lift her bier, do not shake her or disturb her, but be gentle, for Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) had nine wives, with eight of whom he shared his time, but to one of them, he did not allot a share. 'Ati said: The one to whom he did not allot a share of time was Safiyya, daughter of Huyayy b. Akhtab. | See also: {{Muslim|8|3456}} }}
'Ata related that when they were with Ibn 'Abbas (Allah be pleased with them) at the funeral of Maimuna In Sarif, Ibn 'Abbas (Allah be pleased with them) said: This is the wife of Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) ; so when you lift her bier, do not shake her or disturb her, but be gentle, for Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) had nine wives, with eight of whom he shared his time, but to one of them, he did not allot a share. 'Ati said: The one to whom he did not allot a share of time was Safiyya, daughter of Huyayy b. Akhtab. | See also: {{Muslim|8|3456}} }}


=== Maimuna bint Harith ===
== Maimuna bint Harith ==


;Muhammad married Maimuna even though she was haram for him
;Muhammad married Maimuna even though she was haram for him
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Maimuna reported that one morning Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) was silent with grief. Maimuna said: Allah's Messenger, I find a change in your mood today. Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: Gabriel had promised me that he would meet me tonight, but he did not meet me. By Allah, he never broke his promises, and Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) spent the day in this sad (mood). Then it occurred to him that there had been a puppy under their cot. He commanded and it was turned out. He then took some water in his hand and sprinkled it at that place. When it was evening Gabriel met him and he said to him: you promised me that you would meet me the previous night. He said: Yes, but we do not enter a house in which there is a dog or a picture. Then on that very morning he commanded the killing of the dogs until he announced that the dog kept for the orchards should also be killed, but he spared the dog meant for the protection of extensive fields (or big gardens).}}
Maimuna reported that one morning Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) was silent with grief. Maimuna said: Allah's Messenger, I find a change in your mood today. Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: Gabriel had promised me that he would meet me tonight, but he did not meet me. By Allah, he never broke his promises, and Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) spent the day in this sad (mood). Then it occurred to him that there had been a puppy under their cot. He commanded and it was turned out. He then took some water in his hand and sprinkled it at that place. When it was evening Gabriel met him and he said to him: you promised me that you would meet me the previous night. He said: Yes, but we do not enter a house in which there is a dog or a picture. Then on that very morning he commanded the killing of the dogs until he announced that the dog kept for the orchards should also be killed, but he spared the dog meant for the protection of extensive fields (or big gardens).}}


=== Fatimah ===
Possibly two different Fatimahs have been mentioned in Tabari. Muhammad briefly married Fatimah bint al-Dahhak bin Sufyan (also called al-Kilabiyyah)<ref>al-Tabari vol.9 p.39</ref> and consummated his marriage with her <ref>al-Tabari vol.39 p.187</ref>. He also married Fatimah bint Shurayh/Sara’. <ref>al-Tabari vol.9 p.139</ref>
=== Qutaylah bint Qays ===
Muhammad married Qutaylah bint Qays but she died before they consummated the marriage. Curiously, it also says she and her brother apostacized from Islam. So she must have apostacized after the marriage and before her death perhaps. <ref>al-Tabari vol.9 p.138-139.</ref>
=== Sana bint Sufyan ===
Muhammad had a friend marriage with Sana bint Sufyan.<ref>al-Tabari vol.39 p.188</ref>
=== Sharaf bint Khalifah ===
Muhammad married Sharaf bint Khalifah, sister of Dihyah bin Lhalifah al-Kalbi, but she died while Muhammad was still alive. <ref>al-Tabari vol.9 p.138</ref>
=== Asma’ bint Noman (Divorced) ===
Asma bint al-Nu’man bin Abi Al-Jawn of the Kindah tribe was married to Muhammad, but the marriage was never consummated.<ref>al-Tabari vol.10 p.185 and footnote 1131 p.185.</ref>
{{Quote|{{Bukhari|7|63|181}}|Narrated Al-Awza:
I asked Az-Zuhri, "Which of the wives of the Prophet sought refuge with Allah from him?" He said "I was told by 'Ursa that 'Aisha said, 'When the daughter of Al-Jaun was brought to Allah's Apostle (as his bride) and he went near her, she said, "I seek refuge with Allah from you." He said, "You have sought refuge with The Great; return to your family."}}
=== Mulaykah bint Dawud (Divorced) ===
Muhammad married (married is the word in the text) Mulaykah bint Dawud al-Laythiyyah, but when she was told that Muhammad was the one who had her father killed, she took refuge in Allah from Muhammad and Muhammad separated from her. <ref>al-Tabari vol.8 p.189</ref> The same story is told of for a woman named Mulaykah bint Ka’b (who is likely the same person)<ref>al-Tabari vol.39 p.165</ref>
=== al-Shanba’ bint ‘Amr (Divorced) ===
Muhammad married al-Shanba’ bint ‘Amr al-Ghifariyyah; her people were allies of the banu Qurayza. When Ibrahim died, she said that if he were a true prophet his son would not have died. Muhammad divorced her before consummating his marriage with her. <ref>al-Tabari vol.9 p.136</ref>
=== al-‘Aliyyah (Divorced) ===
Muhammad married al-‘Aliyyah, but then divorced her. <ref>al-Tabari vol.9 p.138</ref>
=== Amrah bint Yazid (Divorced) ===
Muhammad divorced ‘Amrah bint Yazid because she had leprosy. <ref>al-Tabari vol.39 p.188</ref> He divorced her on their wedding night. <ref>Women in Islam, By Anne Sofie Roald - Page 221 [Quoted: Najla Hamadeh, Page 335-6]</ref>
===Ghaziyyah bint Jabir===
Muhammad married Ghaziyyah bint Jabir. According to Tabari, "When the Prophet went to her he found her to be an old woman, so he divorced her." <ref>al-Tabari vol.9 p.139</ref>
=== Unnamed Woman (Divorced) ===
Muhammad divorced an unnamed woman because she would peek at those leaving the mosque. <ref>al-Tabari vol.39 p.187</ref>
== Concubines ==
=== Mariyah ===
Mariyah the Copt was a concubine of Muhammad<ref>al-Tabari vol.9 p.141; Sahih Muslim vol.4 footnote 2835. p.1351</ref> and gave birth to Muhammad's son Ibrahim <ref>al-Tabari vol.9 p.39</ref> who died when he was two years old. Muhammad "had intercourse with her [Mary] by virtue of her being his property" <ref>al-Tabari vol.39 p.194.</ref>. She died in 637/638 A.D.<ref>al-Tabari vol.39 p.22</ref>
=== Raihana ===
Rayhana (alternative spellings: Raihana/Rayhanah bint Zaid/Zayd) was a Jewish captive from the Quraiza tribe. According to one source<ref>al-Tabari vol.8 p.39. See also al-Tabari vol.9 p.137,141.</ref> Muhammad offered to make her a wife instead of a slave, but she decline and remained Jewish. However another source<ref>al-Tabari vol.39 p.164-165</ref> says Muhammad set her free and then married her.
=== Khawlah bint al-Hudayl ===
It is said that Muhammad married Khawlah bint al-Hudayl.<ref>al-Tabari vol.9 p.139.</ref><ref>al-Tabari vol.39 p.166</ref>
==Other possible wives==
===Maimuna ===
Maimuna was a woman who offered herself to Muhammad according to Sahih Muslim vol.2 footnote 1919. It could be the same Maimuna as #10 above, or a different one. Married in 7 .H.
An unnamed woman said she gave herself to Muhammad as a wife. Muhammad did not accept her, but gave her to a poor Muslim. The only thing the poor Muslim could give as a dowry is his memorization of a sura of the Qur’an. Muwatta’ Malik 28.3.8
=== Hind ===
Hend/Hind was formerly married to Abu Sufyan, who was a very stingy man, according to Sahih Muslim vol.3 no.4251-4254 p.928-929.


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