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[[Qur'an, Hadith and Scholars:Marriage]] | |||
{{Quote|Ibn Majah Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1853|It was narrated that: | {{Quote|Ibn Majah Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1853|It was narrated that: | ||
Abdullah bin Abu Awfa said” When Muadh bin Jabal came from Sham, he prostrated to the Prophet who said: 'What is this, O Muadh?' He said: 'I went to Sham and saw them prostrating their bishops and patricians and I wanted to do that for you.' The messenger of Allah said: 'Do not do that. If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone other than Allah, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands. By the one in who hand is the soul of Muhammad! '''No woman can fulfill her duty towards Allah until she fulfills her duty towards her husband. If he asks her (for intimacy) even if she is on her camel saddle, she should not refuse'''.' “(Hasan)}} | Abdullah bin Abu Awfa said” When Muadh bin Jabal came from Sham, he prostrated to the Prophet who said: 'What is this, O Muadh?' He said: 'I went to Sham and saw them prostrating their bishops and patricians and I wanted to do that for you.' The messenger of Allah said: 'Do not do that. '''If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone other than Allah, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands'''. By the one in who hand is the soul of Muhammad! '''No woman can fulfill her duty towards Allah until she fulfills her duty towards her husband. If he asks her (for intimacy) even if she is on her camel saddle, she should not refuse'''.' “(Hasan)}} | ||
{{Quote|Ibn Majah Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1854|It was narrated that from Musawir Al Himyari from his mother that: | {{Quote|Ibn Majah Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1854|It was narrated that from Musawir Al Himyari from his mother that: | ||
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that the wife of Rifa'ah Al-Qurazi came to the Messenger of Allah and said: “I was married to Rifa'ah, and he divorced me and made it irrevocable. Then I married ' Abdur-Rahman bin Zubair, and what he has is like the fringe of a garment.” The Prophet smiled and said: “'''Do you want to go back to Rifa'ah? No, not until you taste his ('Abdur-Rahman's) sweetness and he tastes your sweetness'''.” (Sahih)}} | that the wife of Rifa'ah Al-Qurazi came to the Messenger of Allah and said: “I was married to Rifa'ah, and he divorced me and made it irrevocable. Then I married ' Abdur-Rahman bin Zubair, and what he has is like the fringe of a garment.” The Prophet smiled and said: “'''Do you want to go back to Rifa'ah? No, not until you taste his ('Abdur-Rahman's) sweetness and he tastes your sweetness'''.” (Sahih)}} | ||
{{Quote|{{Abu Dawud|11|2045}}|Narrated Ma'qil ibn Yasar: A man came to the Prophet (peace be upon him) and said: I have found a woman of rank and beauty, but she does not give birth to children. Should I marry her? He said: No. He came again to him, but he prohibited him. He came to him third time, and '''he (the Prophet) said: Marry women who are loving and very prolific, for I shall outnumber the peoples by you'''. }} | |||
{{Quote|Ibn Majah Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1846|It was narrated from Aishah that: | |||
the Messenger of Allah said: “Marriage is part of my sunnah, and whoever does not follow my sunnah has nothing to do with me. '''Get married, for I will boast of your great numbers before the nations'''. Whoever has that means, let him get married, and whoever does not, then he should fast for it will diminish his desire.” (Hasan)}} | |||
{{Quote|Ibn Majah Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1849|It was narrated from Samurah that: | |||
'''the Messenger of Allah forbade celibacy'''. Zaid bin Akhzam added: “And Qatadah recited: 'And indeed We sent Messengers before you (O Muhammad ), and made for them wives and offspring.'”(Sahih)}} | |||
{{Quote|Ibn Majah Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1848|It was narrated that: | |||
Sa'd said: “'''The Messenger of Allah disapproved of Uthman bin Maz'un's desire to remain celibate'''; if he had given him permission, we would have gotten ourselves castrated.” (Sahih)}} | |||
{{Quote|Ibn Majah Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1863|It was narrated from Abu Hurairah that: | |||
the Messenger of Allah said: “'''Marry, for I will boast of your great numbers'''.”(Sahih)}} | |||
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Alqamah bin Qais said: “I was with Abdullah bin Masud in Mina, and Uthman took him aside. I was sitting near him. Uthman said to him: 'Would you like that I marry you to a young virgin who will remind you of how you were in the past?' When Abdullah saw that he did not say anything to him apart from that, he gestured to me, so I came and he said: 'As you say that the Messenger of Allah said “'''O young men, whoever among you can afford it, let him get married, for it is more effective in lowering the gaze and guarding one's chastity. Whoever cannot afford it, let him fast, for it will diminish his desire'''.” ' ” (Sahih)}} | |||
{{Quote| {{Bukhari|3|31|129}}|"While I was walking with 'Abdullah he said, "We were in the company of the Prophet and he said, ''''He who can afford to marry should marry, because it will help him refrain from looking at other women, and save his private parts''' from looking at other women, and save his private parts from committing illegal sexual relation; and '''he who cannot afford to marry is advised to fast, as fasting will diminish his sexual power'''."}} | |||
{{Quote|Ibn Majah Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1879|It was narrated from Aishah that : | |||
the Messenger of Allah said: “'''Any woman whose marriage is not arranged by her guardian, her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid, her marriage is invalid'''. If (the man) has had intercourse with her, then the Mahr belongs to her in return for his intimacy with her. And if there is any dispute then the ruler is the guardian of the one who does not have a guardian.” (Sahih)}} | |||
{{Quote|Ibn Majah Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1880|It was narrated that: | |||
Aisha and Ibn Abbas said: “The Messenger of Allah said: ''''There is no marriage except with a guardian'''.' ”According to the Hadith of Aishah: “And the ruler is the guardian of the one who does not have a guardian. ” (Sahih)}} | |||
{{Quote|Ibn Majah Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1881|It was narrated from Abu Musa that: | |||
the Messenger of Allah said: “'''There is no marriage except with a guardian'''.” (Sahih)}} | |||
{{Quote|Ibn Majah Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1882|It was narrated from Abu Hurairah that: | |||
the Messenger of Allah said: “No woman should arrange the marriage of another woman, and no woman should arrange her own marriage. '''The adulteress is the one who arranges her own marriage'''.” (Sahih)}} | |||
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